Sensual Massage Workshops for Couples


All the workshops below are run on private tuition basis with or without volunteer(s) to practice on. Since each couple can have their own particular requirements for the content of their workshop I am very happy to tailor make the day to create the perfect workshop for you.

Couple giving to a male
Learn how to give a full body sensual massage to another male, including exploring arousal to orgasm, stimulating erogenous areas, the psychology of arousal and traditional massage techniques. (male volunteer receiver provided)

Couple giving to a female 
Learn how to give a full body sensual massage to a female, including exploring arousal to orgasm, stimulation of erogenous areas the psychology of sensual massage as well as traditional massage techniques. (female volunteers receiver provided)

Couple giving to one another
Increasingly couples are looking at way to spice up and bring more adventure to their sex lives. Learning how to give one another full body massage is a perfect way in which to add a new dimension to foreplay.

Couple giving to male & female
Due to the time required This can only be arranged for the Standard Day workshop and includes both practice and teaching of traditional massage techniques as well as learning arousal and genital massage on both male and female volunteers. (male & female volunteer receivers provided)

2 or 3-hour Experiential Massage Practice

Learn & Enjoy at the same time by giving a four hands massage with Colin

£265 – 2 hours with one person receiving a 90-minute massage 

£325 – 3 hours with both receiving a 75-minute massage

This workshop is for those couples who want to explore what it is like to give a sensual massage to their partner but to give it with the guidance of an expert as a four hands massage. On booking, I find out what it is you want to explore in giving the massage practice. Then I find a mutually convenient time for the practice. On the day we start by having a brief chat to understand how the ‘receiver’ (him or her or both) likes to enjoy the massage. I then take 15 minutes to teach you some standard massage strokes for the back, legs, buttocks and shoulders. Then once you are feeling confident and at ease and your partner is relaxed we start the four hands massage. We work together with you following my lead. The intention is to create a sensually enjoyable experience for both the receiver and yourself rather than learn specific massage techniques. Simply by giving a sensual massage in this way, you will not only enjoy the pleasure of giving but also learn by first-hand practice some essential aspects of a sensual massage. The massage will include full body arousal, genital massage, edging the orgasm, bringing to orgasm and optional prostate massage (men), clitoral and vaginal and g spot (women) You can remain clothed or be naked when giving the massage. If there are specific aspects you want to include in the massage, then let me know, and we can incorporate this in, for example, light spanking or domination.

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The 5-hour Introductory Couples Workshop – Enhance your foreplay skills!

The 5 hour half day workshop is ideal as a taster or for couples wanting to just enjoy giving a sensual massage to another man or woman or to each other. The couple gives a 90-minute sensual massage jointly under instruction from Colin to a volunteer followed by them each receiving a 60-minute sensual massage after,  either as a 2 hands massage from their partner or as 4 hands with Colin instructing.

Cost £475
Daytime or Evening – Any 5 hours between 9.00am – 11.00pm

If you require a female volunteer to practice on then allow a further £100 per female

To request more information about this workshop, [click here]

To make an application for a workshop or group event [click here]

Couples 10-hour Intermediate Workshop – Explore, arouse and prolong the pleasure!

This workshop is ideal for the couple who want to learn in detail how to give a sensual massage and explore both the psychology and physiology of arousal and better sexual performance.

Workshop with volunteer receivers – This option includes two practice sessions on male or female (or both) volunteers in the morning followed by the couple receiving their own massage each at end of day. Each couple massage can be given either as 4 hands with each pairing with Colin or from one to the other just with verbal instruction from Colin.

Private workshop –  Or the couple may want a completely private workshop and to just practice on one another with a very focussed instruction enhancing on foreplay skills genital arousal and sexual performance.

However, it is important to emphasise that all couple workshops can be tailor-made to your specific requirements. Just ask!

Cost £675
9.00am – 11.00pm. Or the workshop can be split into 2 x 5 hours period on separate days.

If you require female volunteers to practice on then allow a further £100 per female

To request more information about this workshop, [click here]

To make an application for a workshop or group event [click here]

Testimonial from Steven & Karen

Private couples 5 hour workshop December 2017

My wife & I have the most amazing relationship. We’ve been together for 12 years & married for over 7. We’ve always had a wonderful connection and great sex life but since discovering a mutual desire to expand our sexual experiences further and with other people, we’ve become so much closer.

Some people don’t understand how this is possible but I’m sure there are other couples out there that have experienced the same strengthening of bonds with each other as a result of sharing our desires (and bodies) with other people.

Thanks to KK, we’ve met some amazing people & can’t wait to attend our first party. One of our most interesting discoveries through KK has been the services of Intimacy Matters, a therapeutic massage service run by Colin Richards. My wife first saw Colin several weeks ago as an opportunity to discover new ways to reach orgasm. As many of us Tom cats (& kittens) will have experienced, the female body is incredibly gorgeous but with that comes some complexity that sometimes baffles us all.
Her initial sessions with Colin have been one on one and I know she has learned a lot about her own sensations, plus she’s learned a few new tricks in the bedroom which we both love.

To further our desires of maximum pleasure, we recently decided to join Colin for a couples’ massage workshop. We hoped this would provide us with some new techniques we could use on each other and other people we may play with. For me personally, it was also an opportunity to explore a mild bi-curiosity as I’d never been touched erotically by another man and honestly, I had no idea how my body and brain would react. Had I been more worried about being touched by another man, the option of a female masseuse or a more hands off approach was available, but I really wanted to fully explore my curiosity.

Our session started with a nice chat, some questions about what we both wanted out of the session along with some extremely accurate perspectives on personality types and how they translate to sexual techniques. Colin also shared some very interesting prehistoric sexual theories that really do make a lot of sense.

So, on to our massage workshop which started with a discussion on consent, something I hadn’t really thought too much about but a very important topic as the massage would be taking us to new areas of exploration. It’s crucial to understand and agree on the signals, particularly if (or, hopefully when) we involve another person, but also as a sign that things are heading in the right direction. Some consent signals we learned about are very subtle such as a slight shift in position, a gentle moan or a change in breathing, whilst others can be a little more obvious, like a squeeze of a hand or even a code/safe word. The important things here are clarity & trust. Be clear on what’s planned upfront & agree the boundaries.
With my wife up first on the table, it was time to commence. Laying face down & very much like a normal massage, starting gently, Colin really reinforced the importance of a slow build up, particularly for a woman, lots of long strokes, in a non sexual way, looking for those signals that things were heading in the right direction and she was beginning to relax. It was a wonderfully enlightening experience to be part of a two man erotic massage on my wife and I really enjoyed watching her pleasure build towards orgasm.

After about an hour of massage, it was time for a pleasant break for lunch and another enlightening chat with Colin before it was my turn on the table.

Once again, the massage started normally enough but it wasn’t long before I was heading towards a state of bliss, thanks to a number of different techniques from gentle strokes to gentle nail scratching & full body to body massage. These techniques not only brought me to an increasingly aroused state, my body also relaxed massively. It was a wonderfully new experience delivering a plethora of new and interesting sensations, so much so that I came close to orgasm whilst my wife & Colin played with my cock & balls. What I didn’t know at this point was that it was only the beginning for me & it wasn’t time for me to cum, yet!

After a brief cool down, it was my wife’s turn again, this time for her main event, with Colin’s expert guidance, we played with her in an effort to give her an illusive g-spot orgasm, whilst it got close, it didn’t quite happen, but we’re increasingly confident it will.
Colin left us alone for a few minutes & as she was in such a state of arousal, I was only too happy to bring her to a massive clitoral orgasm with some practiced and ever-reliable oral action.

After she had come back down to earth, it was my turn. Back on the table, this time face up, my wife used her newly learned massage skills to manipulate my cock & balls in ways I’d never experienced, making sure to bring me ever closer to climax, without taking me immediately there. Colin also (to my surprise) demonstrated the toughness of the cock by giving it a few forceful slaps, delivering new sensations, whilst holding back that climax a little longer.
By this point, I felt a mixture of total relaxation, combined with the feeling of a horny 19 year old who hasn’t had a wank for 3 weeks. It was time to cum!
Colin continued to guide Amy, teaching the importance of stroke pressure & direction, “firm down, soft up”, “imagine your hands are like a vagina, getting tighter as it penetrates deeper”. I was in too much of a state of bliss to look but it certainly felt like I had 4 hands playing with my cock & balls as I was finally allowed the wonderful release of a great orgasm.

After the session was over, we took some time out to take it all in. It was an amazing experience that has left us with a deeper understanding of each other and given us a number of new bedroom techniques that will continue to drive our sexual pleasures to new heights. I’m also pleased to say that being touched by another man and a woman at the same time was a rather nice sensation that I look forward to exploring more of in the future.

It was time to say goodbye for now & when leaving Colin gave us both a big hug, remarking that we couldn’t just shake hands, having just had my cock in his hand. This made us both laugh.

Now we’re looking forward to an opportunity to practice by sharing our newfound skills with another person or couple, further expanding our sexual pleasures and desires to reach new heights of bliss.

Couples Affaire Massage Party
February 24th 2018

A  Couples Affaire Party

Next Event February 24th, 2018

Maximum attendance 25 couples

A social and sensual party for couples who want to enjoy exciting conversation, explore intimate touch and arousal with other couples in a sophisticated relaxed environment

Drawing on my 20 years experience as a hotel proprietor I have created this couples evening as an alternative to the adult events that are more commonly available. I believe that a well run evening should be personally hosted, welcoming, unpressurized and intimate. An occasion where guests can socialise and get to know one another gradually so that any intimate interaction develops naturally.

images (18)Many couples are seeking to expand their sexual horizons but also are reticent about leaping into the swingers or adult fetish scene. This couple’s intimate event is specifically designed for those who like intimacy and who like giving and receiving sensual touch. So by focusing the evening on sensual massage it ensures that anything more erotic follows naturally and organically.

This event is specifically designed for the discerning male & female couple who want to enjoy the company of other like-minded couples. Smart attire, interesting conversation, saucy games, cocktails and canapes precede an evening of sensual and play and erotic interaction that goes on into the early hours. Limited numbers of 20 couples. To avoid age and sexuality segregation that happens in other events, this event is open to all ages but the usual attendance age is between 30 – 55 years and all attendees must be of healthy and fit or ‘good for my age’ physiques.

Start- 8 pm

End  – 2 am

Location – Pimlico SW1V Central London

Click here to read more and register your interest in the next Couple’s Affaire Party event