Mentoring for singles or couples

A more collaborative kind of help

As well as giving sensual massage I am also a diploma trained psychosexual and relationship therapist and Imago relationship dynamics educator. I have experience in NLP, Hypnotherapy and attained  Level 2 in Co-Active Life Coaching.  Consequently, I also offer to men, women and couples, straight forward down to earth support to help clients address challenges in their relationships that I prefer to call mentoring rather than therapy.

Mentoring adopts a more collaborative approach than traditional psychosexual therapy. After hearing my client explain the problem or difficulty I help him or her understand more clearly what it is that they are challenged by and why I offer advice and strategies that can help the client overcome these issues.

Mentoring sessions can be taken on an hourly or two-hourly basis and as a single one-off appointment or as a series of six. I’m happy to meet clients face to face or, if this isn’t possible, via telephone or Skype.

If you are client going through a particularly stressful time or have a particular situation at which you want some “on the spot” support I also offer a telephone mentoring option.

Situations and issues where mentoring can help

  • Sexual performance: erection issues, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm, fear of intimacy, sexual timidity
  • What I have always wanted to ask but… better sexual knowledge
  • Understanding my sexuality better – for example, married or straight but bi-curious
  • Sexual and emotional exploration for couples: we want to have better a sex life.
  • Relationship breakdown: life after separation, divorce or affairs
  • New relationships – getting it right this time: why do I always seem to go for the same type?
  • Old relationship, new spark: relighting the fire with a new perspective on your sensual and sexual relationship
  • Three in a bed: can sexual adventures help our relationship?
  • Open relationships: don’t ask don’t tell or open disclosure?
  • Relationship communication: how to say what I want sexually and emotionally
  • Cross-nationality and cross-cultural relationships: better awareness of language and attitudes
  • Sexuality and same-sex attraction: who am I sexually and how can I be the real me without destroying what I have already?

 Appointment options and fees

15 minute FREE Call

If you are not sure how or if I can help you or maybe you are just a bit nervous to make a full appointment, then just send me a text and ask if you can have a 15-minute chat with me on the phone. In that time you can ask the question or explain the issue and I can let you know if I think I can help.  It can be lonely being unable to share your thoughts so whether you are a man, a woman or a couple, and you are either straight, gay, bisexual, bi-curious, transgender, pan or polysexual or transsexual, just send me a text to arrange a short FREE chat. 07966 522 696

Introductory Fact Finding Face to Face Session £95

This is a 60-minute preliminary session. It enables me to get a deeper understanding of your particular situation and needs as well as your desire for how you want your life to change or improve. This session allows you time to check me out and see if we “fit”. At the end of this fact-finding session, you can select to continue mentoring on one of the options below


Face to face mentoring

On a pay as you go basis

  • 60-minute session: £1o5
  • 90 – minute session:£165
  • 120-minute session: £195

Series of six face to face appointments

There is a 15% reduction if paid in advance and all appointments completed within 6 months. There is no refund for appointments not taken within the 6 months.

  • Six 60-minute sessions: £535
  • Six 90-minute sessions: £840
  • Six 120-minute sessions: £995

 Telephone/Skype/WhatsApp mentoring

On a pay as you go basis

(ideal for international clients)

  • 60-minute sessions: £85
  • 120-minute sessions: £145

Series of six Telephone/Skype/WhatsApp mentoring

There is a 15% reduction if paid in advance and all appointments completed within 6 months. There is no refund for appointments not taken within the 6 months.

  • Six 60-minute sessions: £435
  • Six 120-minute sessions: £735

On the spot telephone support

  • Available on a daily, weekly or monthly pre-booked basis
  • A one off 15-minute chat: £25

Booking an appointment

Enquiry or To Book [click here]

Or call Colin on 07966 522 696


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Mentoring For Couples

These days, many couples find it hard to fit sex into their busy schedules. And it’s perfectly normal for people to go through periods when they’re just not in the mood for lovemaking. Busy working lives, children and other day to day commitments that a modern lifestyle encourages all can affect the frequency of intimacy between partners. For many simply familiarity of one another can be the cause of lack of sex. Falling into a regular pattern when sex becomes unimaginative even boring can also be a reason why couples struggle to find sexual satisfaction.

Seeking treatment for sex problems has become more socially acceptable today, but it’s still not easy for many people to talk to a professional about such an intimate area. There are probably a lot of people out there who could use therapy but don’t come because they’re embarrassed. They may go through years of needless pain or dissatisfaction.

The obvious thing is that you’re dealing with the human body so you can’t just talk about how you feel; you’ve got to work on the physical level as well. Sex therapy generally addresses the emotional issues underlying sexual problems and employs behavioural techniques to deal with the physical symptoms.

I offer couples a down to earth approach to sex. I create an environment where you can talk freely and comfortable about any aspect of your sex lives. I take time to understand your mutual dynamic and what is causing the challenge. I help you to both explore your desires to find out what it is you both want and then we talk about how these can be incorporated into your relationship. How your sex life can be energised and exciting again without risking all the other qualities your relationships already has.

Mentoring appointment options and fees for couples.

Introductory 90-minute session £125

This is a 90-minute preliminary session. It enables me to get a deeper understanding of your particular situation and needs as well as your desire for how you want you life to change or improve. This session allows you time to check me out and see if we “fit”. At the end of this fact-finding session, you can select to continue mentoring on one of the options below


Couples face to face mentoring

On a pay as you go basis

  • 60-minute session: £125
  • 90-minute session £185
  • 120-minute session: £215

Series of six face to face appointments

There is a 15% reduction if paid in advance and all appointments completed within 6 months. There is no refund for appointments not taken within the 6 months.

  • Six 60-minute sessions: £635 (£105 each)
  • Six 90-minute sessions: £945 (£157 each)
  • Six 120-minute sessions: £1095 (£182 each)

 Telephone/Skype/WhatsApp mentoring

On a pay as you go basis

(ideal for international clients)

  • 60-minute sessions: £100
  • 120-minute sessions: £150

Series of six Telephone/Skype/WhatsApp mentoring

  • There is a 20% reduction if paid in advance and all appointments completed within 6 months. There is no refund for appointments not taken within the 6 months.
  • Six 60-minute sessions: £500 (£83 each)
  • Six 120-minute sessions: £750 (£125 each)

On the spot telephone support

  • Available on a daily, weekly or monthly pre-booked basis
  • A one off 15 minute chat: £15

Booking an appointment

To make an enquiry or to book a mentoring session, click here

Or call 07966 522 696