Over the past year or so, although I have not been actively publicizing it on the M33 web site, I have increasingly been giving full body sensual massage to female clients. Once considered to be only something that men might explore, sensual massage is now becoming a much sort after treatment for women both single and women in relationships, sometimes even married. Read on to learn some of the reasons that female clients have given in the last 12 months when booking a sensual massage with me.
- I enjoy regular massage, to have my muscles worked professionally but I also want to experience intimate touch so that I can connect with the deeper primal sensual part of myself
- I want to experience a sensual massage in “50 Shades of Grey” manner where the masseur is in complete control and I can just lay back and enjoy his authority with the knowledge that I am ultimately in control of all that takes place. (This style does not include any BDSM or role play but incorporates assertive massage and some physical body lifting as well as strong arousal techniques. (this style of massage can only be given to those with average to slim physiques)
- I like to enjoy the firm yet tender touch of a man without the need to perform or give back sexually
- I enjoy receiving arousal and ultimate orgasm through gentle prolonged intimate touch rather than penetrative intercourse
- I have a loss of libido
- I have a fear of intimacy and am embarrassed about my body but stiil want to enjoy sensual arousal
- I experience painful intercourse, orgasmic dysfunction
- I am insecure and sexual inexperienced and want to learn more about my sexuality as well as how to give excellent sensual arousal to my partners
- I am a single women, who is happy to not be in a relationship and although my sex life is good I miss the intimacy and tender touch that a relationship brings.
- I believe that it is right to be able to experience arousal and orgasm without commitment and responsibilities of a relationship.
- I want to explore orgasm as I have heard that there are multiple ways a female can achieve this.
- I am in a marriage/ partnership where most else is good but the sex and intimacy has declined and I need to receive intimate attention within a safe professional therapeutic environment that is discreet and private that will not challenge my current situation
Is this a growing market?
Without a doubt this is a growing market. Women are becoming far more in touch with their sexual energies and at last becoming less influenced by social and religious constraints that dictate how they should conduct themselves sexually. Almost all the female clients I have seen have come to me for their first ever sensual massage and almost all of them say after that they had wished it had not taken them so long to take the step.
The female sexual dynamic is enormously strong, the urge to procreate and maintain the species is a fundamental role that every women is indentured with from birth. With this goes the need for intimacy and caring approving touch, an aspect which sadly can often become lacking in longer term relationships so that if the sex stops so does the physical intimacy.
Having a sensual massage from a professional masseur allows the female to enjoy this totally natural need but without fear of judgement, expectation even reprisal.
Make sure your male masseur is professional
Of course any commercial male masseur giving a sensual massage to a female client must be totally professional in all aspects of the message, the facilities in which it takes place and the manner in which the client is treated. It is crucial that prior to the massage taking place the content of the massage and the level of intimacy involved is discussed. For any male masseur considering offering sensual massage to female clients I recommend that prior to the appointment, time is taken to give a detailed description of the massage and to find out she wants to experience and why and also ask is she has any areas of concern about the massage. Not only does this avoid embarrassment or any misunderstanding when the massage, is being given but the fact that the content of the massage has been discussed in advance can be used as proof of acknowledgement that the client was fully aware of the depth of intimacy involved should any complaints be made. I recommend that this is best done by email rather than phone or face to face as it ensures that there is written proof of the agreement.
Additionally to ensure that the massage includes or excludes elements that the female client wants to experience or does not want to experience, the client should be given a short questionnaire where she can identify her comfort levels in regard to the more erotic aspects of the massage. This might be about how she likes internal or external vafinal stimulation, anal stimulation, breast or nipple massage as well as the general style of massage, gentle and caring or more forceful and assertive. Using a scoring system is a good way to achieve this. 10 for definitely I want to experience this , 5 for maybe if the mood is right to 0 for I definitely do not want this included in the massage.
To read more about the sensual full body massage that I give to female clients please click on Exquisite Sensual Massage For Women
Article written by Colin of www.massage33.com