It frustrates me that when it comes to carnal desire, so often I hear people charge men of only being interested in one thing, Sex! But this is so not true. Yes men do love to have penetrative sex, its primal its immensely satisfying when good and ultimately its can secure our genetic line and because of this it is clearly what biologically we as men are programmed to enjoy as often as possible and with as many (females) as possible. However what many don’t appreciate and I include many men in this, is that most men also enjoy and actually need the physical intimate touch that come with the sex as much as the sex itself. In fact many men find it difficult to perform as confidently as they want to if they do not feel an intimate connection with their partner, be it a female or male.
Don’t let it ever be said that women are less sexual than men. If you believe it is men who hold the erotic trump card you will be wrong. It has to be said that after giving some 200 sensual massages to women, I am still in awe of this experience. Beware guys todays female is changing fast, no longer is it the pergiative of men to be the sexual overseer and its not just the young nubile female of the 21st centruary that is taking control and expressing her deeper desires but in my expereinec its the 35 yrs plus ladies that are the power houses of sexual energy. Like a time bomb ready once the female who has beene historically supressed by cultural, religious or simply social controls, lets these fall away what is revealed is her womanhood in its true glory. But this is not new, only our times and understand has changed. 100 years ago and more durig the Victorain era in particular female sexual desire was just a apparant. The women on the 1850’s felt no less sexuel desire as a woman of today, but today we understand that for her arousal, orgasm and sexual satisfaction is an essentail part of being a female human being. It is not a sign of mental disorder, it is not an indication of beeing morally corrupt or sacreligeous. It is a simply sign of being a woman and men should embrace and encorage this without question and both enjoy the results.
So go for it girls, reclaim your sexual territory but remember let the men enjoy men being the intimate animals for a while. Given them some tenderness, caress stroke and care for them and then in return they will give you back all you want in bundles (as long as you show them you want it).
Written by Colin Richards www.massage33.com / www.intimacymatters.co.uk