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The Chinese and Japanese, for example, held the Taoist view that sexual relations between male and female are earthly manifestations of the universal principles of Yin and Yang. They regarded sex to be as natural and indispensable to human health and longevity as rain is to plant life. Today we have a better awareness of the human condition enabling us to understand this interpretation, and now with a considerable knowledge of human biology we know far better our sensual and sexual process and that it is an essential part of the human physical, psychological and emotional condition.
The need for intimacy, whether given by sensual touch or erotic sexual arousal is not only fundamental to the creation of life itself but been part of human social interaction since the beginning of mans evolution itself. Falling in to 3 distinct yet superimposed states, human intimacy is central to our very need to survive. If insecurity is the fear that draws us closer to others then intimacy is the glue that keeps us together and enables our species to survive and develop.
The Three States of Intimacy
Sexual – Procreative, Erotic, Assertive.
Sensual – Arousing, Tactile, Stimulating.
Emotional- Unconditional, Safe, Trusting.
Today we live in a society that has become very confused. Sex has become a word that inspires a myriad of reactions, from furtive titillation, to guilt, the nudge nudge wink wink syndrome to basic carnal desire; similarly massage has in recent years been regarded as a pseudonym for sexual touch and sexual services. This has not been helped by the current high jacking of the word of *tantra used by many “masseurs” to indicate a massage that can be at worst the “rub & tug” experience and at best a sensual massage that is given with a spiritual camouflage and a metaphor for what in reality is a normal human desire to give and be sensually aroused.
(*Tantra has a very relevant place in the journey to understand ourselves better and for those that want to learn and understand this ancient philosophy there are some very good Tantric practitioners available, details of courses and recommended practioners can be supplied upon request.)
M33 Sensual Massage for Men – Motivation and Description
Over the past 4 years I have worked with more than 2000 different male clients and given over 3000 treatments. This has afforded me the opportunity to understand, observe and experience the many motivations that these clients have given in wanting to receive a sensual massage from another man. I have listed these below and I am sure that one or more will connect with you. I have also trained 3 assistant masseurs who now work as independent masseurs giving sensual massage within the M33 code of practice.
Here are some reasons Men give for wanting to experience a Sensual Massage from another Man
- I have aching or strained muscles and enjoy a firm massage but also enjoy the light sensual touch.
- I feel in need of intimate touch and to be pampered and cared for without needing to give in return.
- I am in a good partnership but the intimacy has gone but I need my sensual batteries recharged without challenging my relationship.
- I am on a personal journey and want to take my own sensuality to another level.
- I am historically heterosexual but have become curious to experience the intimate touch of another man and want to experience male to male intimacy within is safe discreet, professional caring comfortable environment.
- I am bisexual and need a safe place in which to experience this part of me.
- I have a busy life with many responsibilities and demands and just want some “me time” to give over my control and to be cared for intimately.
- I have sexual performance issues that I want help with understanding and if possible a solution. I.e. lack of orgasm, or delayed orgasm, poor body image, high anxiety causing poor sexual performance, sexual fears and guilt. Therefore I recommend the Psychosensual Massage
- Discovering Male to Male Intimacy for the first time; I am historically heterosexual but have become curious to experience the intimate touch of another man and want to experience male to male intimacy within is safe discreet, professional caring comfortable environment.
Almost 40% of my clients are now what might be termed as traditionally heterosexual men, who are either married, in relationship or single, who have became aware of the desire to experience sensual intimacy with another man. For some men this feeling can be comfortable and one that they feel happy to explore in their own time meeting other men via a dating web site or specific venues. However for many others the first step to male/male intimacy can be at best daunting and at worst a frightening almost incomprehensible thought and yet it is something that they know they want to experience.
In order to help these men I have looked more closely into what maybe the cause of this rise and whether it is a new phenomenon or just a shift in culture that has released something that is a fundamentally natural urge in us all. Maybe it is because with the advent of the internet and the accessibility of erotic material many men who in the past would have held back from viewing same sex material are now able to do so with ease and are finding themselves surprisingly drawn to it. But because we live in a world that labels us as sexual stereo types many of these men can feel that they have “Become Gay”. However and it is not so commonly known that in the world of human psychology it is now generally believed that humans are probably naturally bi sexual and that all men and women have the capacity to be attracted socially, emotionally, intimately and sexually to both sexes and for quite different motivations.
I believe man to man sensual touch is as much to do with bonding, hierarchy, acceptance, intimacy and the altering of sexual roles from an assertive heterosexual giver to the more passive receiver, as it does with sex itself. If you are one of these men then for initial exploration I recommend the less intense Sensual Massage with either myself or one of my assistants. For those who want to understand more about their own sexuality, explore deeper feelings and sensations and learn how to incorporate them in to your current life without whilst preserving what you already have then I recommend Psychosensual Massage
The Sensual Massage for Men
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The Massage combines both regular muscle work with intimate touch that can, but not necessarily includes orgasm. The massage takes place between a giver (masseur) and a receiver (client). Each appointment lasts 2 hours. It falls in to three phases, Getting to Know Phase (15 min), The Therapeutic Phase (60 min) and The Erotic phase (30 min plus 15 min to shower and depart).
1. Getting to Know Phase
It is important that prior to the appointment any questions, concerns or desires you have for the massage are highlighted this can be done by email or phone call. On the day of the appointment these points can if needed be discussed and clarified again. The masseur will also want to have a brief outline of your current health and fitness any muscular problems you may have and details of any medication that you may be taking. It is important that you tell the masseur if you suffer from any heart condition, diabetes, or have had recent surgery or have any open cuts or skin complaint.
2. Sensual Therapeutic Phase
The Therapeutic Phase follows the line of a traditional massage and is designed to relax the body, work out any strained or aching muscles and ultimately put your mind and body into a state of ease.
You begin by laying naked on your front with a towel draped over you; the massage starts with a few breathing and relaxation exercises and gentle stroking touch. Warm oil is then applied to the back and shoulders that are given a full 30-minute deep tissue massage, working out any knots or tension. This is particularly good for those suffering from tight shoulders or lower backache. After 30 minutes you will generally fall into a state of rest and it is usually at this time the body and mind begin to let go and become calm. The massage continues with the buttocks, calves, back and inner thighs and at this point in order to increase the state of arousal more sensual strokes are introduced gently stimulating the inner thighs and outer areas of the groin, scrotum cock and anal areas.
After about 45 minutes you will turn over and the massage continues with gentle massage of the feet and ankles. The masseur continues working on the front of legs and upper thighs and intimate areas around the groin, at this point it is probable that you will again become partially or fully aroused but held back from orgasm. You are encouraged to express yourself with sound or movement letting the flow of sensual energy seep around you body. The massage then continues with the hands, arms, chest and shoulders, maintaining throughout an ebb and flow of your senses taking you in to a high state of arousal, preparing you for the following more intimate phase of the Sensual Massage, the Erotic Phase.
3. Erotic Phase
The goal of this phase of the massage is not solely to achieve orgasm, although orgasm is often a pleasant and welcome side effect. The goal can be as simple as to pleasure and massage the cock, balls and anus. From this perspective both receiver and giver can relax, and do not have to worry about achieving any particular goal. When and if orgasm does occur it is usually more expanded, more intense and more satisfying. Lying comfortably on your back with your legs gently apart the masseur begins with gentle massage of the groin area around the inner thighs and anus (internally is optional). As arousal becomes more intense the whole cock is carefully stimulated incorporating several different techniques to enhance the erotic sensations eventually building to a full body orgasm. The intensity of this can be very strong and it is usually indicated by the receiver when they require to rest. The massage continues with gentle stroking of the whole body as time is given for the energy to subside.
The massage ends with a further 10 minutes head and face massage and calming the whole body taking you deep into restful semi consciousness. If you have not showered within 1 hour before arriving for the appointment then you will be expected to take a shower before receiving the massage. You are welcome to take another shower following the massage.
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4 Handed Tantric Massage
Experience the remarkable sensation of having 4 hands on your body at once, the effect is mesmerising and amazingly sensual. The massage last 60 or 90 minutes and follows similar programme as the single sensual massage. We are able to offer 4 handed massages given by either 2 male masseurs or 1 male & 1 female, prices and details upon request.
Alternatively, for a more immediate response, call
07966 522 696 or email colin@massage33.com
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