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Psychosensual MassageA Sensual Massage with understanding given only by Colin
A combination of both sexual performance advice & sensual massage putting in to practice new techniques and understanding. Particularly beneficial for those with sexual performance issues, sexuality concerns & sexual relationship breakdown.
See below for appointment types, duration and cost.
As well as giving Regular & Sensual Massage I also offer clients with additional needs, a treatment that I call Psychosensual Massage.
This is a treatment that utilises my training as a Sex Therapist & Relationship Counsellor and gives clients a fast track approach to achieving results by combining sensual massage with advice & support.
Appointments can be one off or as a series of 3 depending on the issue being looked at.
Areas of anxiety that I often help clients with include:
So if you experience any of the above please take time to read on to learn more about how this massage can help you.
Without doubt receiving intimate sensual touch is probably one of the most pleasant feelings that a human being can experience. It is an integral part of the human condition and is arguably one of our earliest forms of communication. Our bodies are specifically designed to receive it - our psychology programmed to react to it.
For further enquiries please fill in the enquiry form or call me on 07966 522 696 or you can email me on email@example.com
How the Treatment is given
The treatment is given in the quiet relaxed environment of the treatment room. Upon arrival 15-30 min is put aside to talk through your motivations, expectations and any concerns or questions you have for the massage. I give you a clear description of the process explaining the level of sensuality and any hear any concerns you have. If you have not had one before arriving then you can take a shower prior to the beginning of the treatment.
The Pshycosensual Massage is given slowly and seductively, I take you on a 4 part journey from the usual state of tension that many often arrive in through a journey of relaxation and arousal to the orgasmic high and eventual fulfilment of total rest. Each phase of the massage has its particular focus and motivation.
The Sensual Therapeutic phase lasts about 20 minutes and is focused on the shoulders and back of the upper body. The aim is to encourage your mind and body into the first stages of relaxation. With the use of light touch, feathers and soft caring strokes combined with more traditional deep tissue muscle work your body will begin to “let go”. This is followed by gentle teasing of the more intimate areas of the body causing your skins sensory preceptors to send signals to the brain, the brain responds by stimulating the body’s para sympathetic nervous system (relax and rest mode) and as the brain begins to register the arousal the hold it has on the muscles begins to release.
By now you will be well on the way of the sensual journey, you will still be aware of what is taking place but beginning to “drift off” losing yourself to the sensations of the intimate touch. I continue with further exploration into the intimate crevices of the body namely the neck, armpits, groin and pelvic areas. Arousal begins to increase usually causing erection (men) and lubrication (women) accompanied by deeper breathing and some involuntary movements of the body. The skin becomes more sensitive as touch between the masseur and client increases and the mind begins to drifts in and out of awareness.
During this phase I make direct contact with the genitals, in the male the Penis (now erect), Scrotum and in women the outer lips of the Vagina and areas around the Groin and Anus are lightly touched and massaged. At this stage, the intention is to not to take the client to orgasm but to hold them at a high level of arousal and then falling back to relaxation and back again to high arousal. During this phase in the massage the client is encouraged to be self focussed enjoying the stimulation and not to worry about their “performance” or the to be focussed on someone else. However for some 1-1 contact with the masseur can be a way to create and enhance an intimate bond without it becoming sexual.
The male sexual response cycle consists of excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. The first 3 phases of this massage covers the first two elements of this cycle. During this phase of the massage the body and mind becomes paradoxically, both deeply relaxed and highly aroused, this contradictory state causes the bodies’ nervous system to oscillate between its sympathetic and para sympathetic modes as the mind focuses on the sensations of the final ascent to orgasm. At the pinnacle of orgasm control is given over to the primal response of orgasm and in men during ejaculation the muscles tense, the breathing increases, often expressing the sensation verbally. Orgasms are usually a combination of peripheral (genital or extra-genital) stimulation and a mental “letting go.” Neurologically speaking, it is accepted that the pathways for ejaculation and orgasm are under a tonic inhibitory influence, and that the release of this inhibition is cerebrally influenced. Without this release, the normal orgasmic and ejaculatory reflexes cannot be expressed. With the final orgasmic rush comes a massive release of energy, triggering the immediate after effect of relaxation when the male body, immediately following ejaculation, falls back into the deep state of resolution. The body relaxes and encouraged by stroking of the head and scalp the body quickly falls in to “rest, relax and re cooperate mode. With the drifting into a deep state of sub conscious even light sleep.
For many men, the image of self is inevitably linked to a perception of masculinity which in turn involves functioning and performing well sexually. Things can go wrong at any point of the 3 stages of producing and maintaining an erection and can be as a result of either physiological or psychological influences or often a combination of both.
Cardiovascular diseases, Diabetes, Disease of the Nervous System, Aging, Medications, Smoking, Alcoholism, and Hormone Imbalance and can be treated with medical support. However in most cases the condition can also be influenced by Psychological processes and in many cases be the prime reason for intermittent erectile dysfunction. Generally if involuntary erection occurs during the night or on waking in the morning but does not occur or is lost during conscious sex (with another or even during masturbation) then other emotional based influences will be the source.
How Can a Sensual Massage Help?
The environment of the massage room and the openness of the masseur immediately change the modus operandi and create a supportive caring situation where the focus on performance is removed and where the receiver can concentrate on what he is feeling rather than what he is doing. As the massage unfolds the body becomes further relaxed, with the sensual strokes of the massage encouraging arousal to take place. With anxiety levels low and the body rested with attention on “self” erection will generally occur. However throughout the massage the masseur will incorporate certain movements that may mildly raise anxiety thus effecting the erection. By observing and reading these minute changes of the dynamic the masseur can often interpret the psychological triggers that flick the arousal switch giving an indication as to what emotion is influencing the erection process. At the same time with the attention on himself the receiver is also able to become aware of the moments when erection is effected either positively or negatively. Discussion following the massage often reveals a core emotion/reaction that is at the root of the anxiety enabling further counselling to target better the influencing dynamic and its source.
Definitions of premature ejaculation have ranged from "coming within six thrusts" to "coming within two minutes" and even "coming before your partner". The last one can be particularly misleading if you have a partner who likes to take up to an hour to reach orgasm.
By providing a calm supportive environment the stress and excitement levels often contributing to PE are lessened considerably. Additionally by talking through the issues before the massage anxiety of performance is reduced so even prior to the arousal the receiver is more calm and relaxed and thus able to be more aware of his own arousal process. By incorporating within the massage various physical and psychological techniques the receiver can recognise his own arousal ladder and the speed with at which he climbs to orgasm. Once recognised he can then apply these techniques when in an intimate situation with a partner. Better communication between himself and the partner of his ascent to arousal will also reduce anxiety and also enable the partner to assist with these techniques.
A common sexual complaint among men is the inability to orgasm. There's a wide range of possible explanations. Physiological causes general fall into one of the following categories.
• Hypothyroidism: The thyroid gland does not produce enough hormone.
How can a Sensual Massage help
Psychological reasons may also be part or in some cases the main reason: These may include depression, anxiety, or a panic disorder of some kind and massage can be used an effective way to lessen these. By putting the sufferer in a rested state and reducing the anxiety around the need to perform, allows arousal to build without fearful interference. The caring intimate nature of the massage builds trust and with this trust the “triggers” that are required to release the orgasm can function better. However it may take several sessions for total relaxation to take place so a series of appointments over a few weeks can be more effective.
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